tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-41338432803986563802024-03-13T01:59:11.320-04:005 & 2 ScottsScottfamilyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05897093225291361042noreply@blogger.comBlogger69125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4133843280398656380.post-42073832497115642992011-09-15T15:19:00.001-04:002011-09-15T15:21:18.413-04:00Double Digits For My Girl<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #e06666; font-size: large;">Today is my daughter's 10th birthday. I spent the evening making some very special s'mores cupcakes for her to bring to school. Ever since we started watching Cupcake Wars our family has taken cupcakes much more seriously. I found this fabulous recipe at <a href="http://ringr.wordpress.com/2011/06/07/smores-cupcakes/">Teacher by Day, Chef by Night</a>. I must confess that I did use a boxed chocolate cake mix for the cupcakes. I did make the graham cracker bottom layer and the marshmallow butter cream frosting. It feels so good to have your children beam with delight at something you did for them or made for them. It felt particularly good to see her face when she saw the cupcakes this morning. Then we gave her one of the new outfits for her birthday so she could wear it to school today. There are two things my girl loves are treats to eat and a new outfit. All I want to be is a MOM to her. It is so difficult having her so desperately need to keep distance between us so she can feel safe. It breaks my heart. But today I am thinking of someone else's broken heart. The woman who gave birth to her. The woman who carried her under her heart for 9 months and then circumstances beyond her control lead her to give her sweet baby girl up. We'll probably never know what happened or why it happened. All I do know is that those circumstances lead to this sweet girl to come into our lives. How incredibly amazing is it that a child born half way around the world in a place that we had never been to would one day be matched to us in some business office. It was actually someone's "job" to match a baby girl to her forever family. That is mind boggling to me. Before that even happened though, there was one day, one moment that someone had to set her down and with every once of willpower they could muster, turn around and walk away. My chest hurt just typing this so I can't even begin to imagine what it must have been like. I am swallowing back the cry that I feel that is caught in my throat, blinking back the tears, and take a moment to say a prayer for them. I share a lot on here about the challenges that come with this disorder that our daughter carries with her. That one moment left her with such a profound loss. A loss that was the beginning to her RAD. A day that was the beginning of her journey to us, her forever family. Today we celebrate her birthday. She is now 10 years old. We get to celebrate her life with her. Today is a very special day. My little girl is 10, DOUBLE DIGITS!!!! So exciting. Such a happy day to celebrate. A day to remember, a day to make a wish and look forward to another wonderful day as her mom, and she is my daughter. </span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">Now September is here and with it comes new beginnings. New clothes to wear and new school supplies mark a new school year for our kids. It's also time for a new season for sports. This is our first season with Bethlehem Soccer. Our 3 younger kids are all on recreation teams. Rob and I are coaching again. The kids are very happy to be playing soccer again. We are settling into our new town. Rob is coaching Meg's modified soccer team and Justin is playing on the Varsity soccer team. Today my new co coach called us a "soccer family" and we certainly are. </span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">The other big new beginning is that our church is going to start The Sleeping Bag Project. I can't begin to tell you how excited I am that the Youth that attended the Mission Trip in Harrisburg, PA are also excited to make sleeping bags for the homeless here in Albany. I've been ready to start working for the Lord for quite some time... probably for my entire 30's. I've tried different things such as working with young kids in church, thought of trying some great ideas that that I THOUGHT were good things to do but just never got it together... I believe God's perfect timing is now. Personally these sleeping bags bring together so many previous aspects of my life and culminate to this project. In college I volunteered at the Adult Learning Center and met some great people from various walks of life who wanted to learn to read, when my 2 oldest children were babies, I learned how to quilt, I have known people who have mental illnesses and who have used drugs who by the grace of God were not homeless but came close to it, Rob also has an ancestor who lived on the streets for a period of time. I have given a McDonald's meal to one gentleman with all of his belongings in a shopping cart. I have a heart for homeless children. I had a difficult childhood and had often thought of running away from home. I spent a lot of time wondering what life was like on the streets vs my own life. Now I have the opportunity to work with the youth of our church and make sleeping bags for the people whose very lives may depend on something warm to sleep in to keep them alive on a bitter cold night. It's such a simple thing but could actually make a difference in someone's life. This is truly the work of Jesus. We will be His hands and feet and reach out to some people who need to be shown His love the most. To allow the Lord to work through you is a true blessing. </span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">So September comes, Irene has come and gone and the clean up continues for so many, the kids are getting ready for a new school year, a new season of sports begins, and our church's youth are preparing to make sleeping bags for the homeless. I am looking forward to these new beginnings. I have been waiting for God to call me to do His work. I have second guessed what he wanted me to do and I have been wrong... or maybe they were just things that he wanted to see if I was willing. A willing heart may be the most important thing He wants from us. Are you willing to do what He asks of you, no matter if it doesn't feel "right" or "important enough"? Have you pushed what you thought fit, like I did with working with younger kids because "hey I have kids so God must want me to work with kids at church" when actually He's been wanting me to go where He has sent me and gather from each </span><br />
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</div><div closure_uid_lue9bv="211"><span closure_uid_lue9bv="213" style="color: #cc0000;">So here it is 9 years later, and finally there is a glimmer of hope. The other kids are adjusting to having her as a SISTER rather than as someone who lied, stole and pretended to be all nice in public while at home she was a screaming, ranting mess. Suddenly there is giggling, playing together and yes, even normal sibling bickering. ALL of which I welcome.Suddenly family time is truly FAMILY time not 6 of us doing something and she had misbehaved to the point of not being included. Believe me it is not fun to go out for ice cream with 6 of us getting a treat and one (yes the obviously adopted child) being excluded. Talk about feeling like you are being whispered about and judged. Truthfully NO ONE could have judged me harder than I judged myself. I constantly second guessed myself when it came to parenting her. I am sure it will continue. It was so difficult having a daughter that not only rejected me as her mother but also whenever (rare as it was) that we did connect, she felt that love as something she had to protect herself from. </span></div><div closure_uid_lue9bv="211"><br />
</div><div closure_uid_lue9bv="211"><span closure_uid_lue9bv="214" style="color: #cc0000;">So it has been 9 years in a desert, wandering through this thing called attachment disorder, lost, thirsting for something that could help, seeing mirages and then being bitterly disappointed when the reality of the situation slapped us again, wanting desperately to escape. Today I have tasted the refreshing relief of water. Our daughter is not cured, but there is relief for now. A time of finally seeing her. That has been the hardest part for me. Not knowing HER beyond her pain and defensive wall building that she did to protect herself from feeling loved. Now I am beginning to see her and know her. I realize that there is a long and bumpy road ahead of us. I am trusting that God will continue to walk with us and be in control. This time of coming out of the desert is something I wasn't expecting. I honestly didn't see an end to this feeling of being lost and wandering. Now I can begin to see that we might be coming out of the desert much sooner than I had thought. This is such a blessing. I had hoped she would have some time as a child. That she would not lose her entire childhood to this disorder. That she would feel loved and trust. A few weeks ago she said that she looked forward to a time when she could tell her children about how she overcame this. How it had been a rough time but she got through it and it turned out good. I look forward to that time too. </span></div><br />
<a href="http://www.mylivesignature.com/" target="_blank"><img border="0" src="http://signatures.mylivesignature.com/85790/debbie52/08d44b3b337af4a430bf1e19be349a74.png" style="background: none transparent scroll repeat 0% 0%; border-bottom: 0px; border-left: 0px; border-right: 0px; border-top: 0px;" /></a> Read more: http://www.mylivesignature.com/wizard2_2.php#ixzz0hibhVBrM</div>Scottfamilyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05897093225291361042noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4133843280398656380.post-8881798547196006492011-07-18T22:16:00.000-04:002011-07-18T22:16:55.797-04:00Thoughts After My First Missions Trip<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi30grWa9lO-ZR__xO2-s4HeqqG-eLI_dTmCkPdtM-dBlyPBXW-FCz1kOVPPRf6Mka0WiAT47opzHh4mm9-ka6SlSA2mOyhsG-pBQjtT80DSMhNC6jiKNs8No1p9XSGPbfJDGZy13oxy8Q-/s1600/Missions+wall+love+of+God.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="239" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi30grWa9lO-ZR__xO2-s4HeqqG-eLI_dTmCkPdtM-dBlyPBXW-FCz1kOVPPRf6Mka0WiAT47opzHh4mm9-ka6SlSA2mOyhsG-pBQjtT80DSMhNC6jiKNs8No1p9XSGPbfJDGZy13oxy8Q-/s320/Missions+wall+love+of+God.jpg" width="320" /></a></div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #783f04;">On Saturday I returned from my first missions trip. It was through Youth Works and was based in Harrisburg, PA. Our church sent 7 adults and 28 youths on this trip. I was blessed to attend with my two oldest children. </span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #783f04;">Going into the trip, I thought it was going to be a fun experience for the 3 of us to share together. God had other plans. I did not have either one of my children in my work group, so we basically saw each other in passing at meals and in between activities in the evenings. It was an interesting experience to let them go like that. </span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #783f04;">For me, I experienced friendship, acceptance and got to know some great youth and amazing people in the Harrisburg community. I met Sue and Vern who just pour out love, support, and everything they have back into the community, reaching out to those who fall through the cracks in society. What was even more amazing was to watch how their "family", those that used to be homeless but now live in the homes Sue and Vern own, pour back into the community themselves. They reach back to those still living on the streets and offer a hand in any way they can to help them get off the streets. The homes are a safe haven in a very rough part of the city. (Sue referred to it as the "ghetto" herself) One of the big "take homes" for me was how much I could do differently with the same 24 hours that I have. Something as simple as just putting out free vegetables on a table for the taking. There were also the "ugly" sleeping bags. Sue and Dan (a family member who used to live on the streets) explained that a nice sleeping bag could be sold for money or could be something you would be killed for. The solution is to make these "ugly" sleeping bags that are very warm and are filled with items like a hat, scarf, a hymn, hygiene items and a pad to keep the moisture from the ground from soaking your sleeping bag. These sleeping bags are very warm and are made with love. I can only imagine how comforting it must be to snuggle down into a hand made "ugly" sleeping bag, knowing that the love of Jesus was with you. Sue and Dan gave me one and I look forward to making them with the youth group at our church and sharing them with others who live out on the streets. The one other thing that struck me was that some of the "ugly" sleeping bags were made smaller and out of fabrics for children. There are children out there sleeping under the bridges that we drive by and over. Makes it a little easier to give up some of my time to help make these sleeping bags when I think of the people who will be sleeping in them. </span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #783f04;">Our group also spent some time playing BINGO at a home for the elderly. It is amazing how much joy the game of BINGO brings to someone. The time we take to talk with someone who does not have visitors is such a small amount of time for us but is so meaningful to them. Just helping out to wheel people down to the sanctuary for Hymn singing is such a help to the workers. They dedicate their time to help people during this time in their life when many others avoid them or get too busy to visit them. It only takes an hour to help out, to smile, ask how someone is doing, to just make some sort of contact with someone, to just show that you care about them, but that small amount of time out of my week can make such a difference. </span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #783f04;">That is what I discovered this week, that just being present for others is more than enough to make a difference. To show another person that they matter and are worth caring about is all that it takes to spread God's love. That is what I learned about how I can use the same 24 hours in better ways to share God's love. I am not always going to be God's feet by going under the bridges to search out the homeless, but I can be the one who puts together "ugly" sleeping bags with our youth group to be given to the ones who do go to the bridges. </span><br />
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Earlier today, during one his quick pit stops to change after work and head off to the ball field, he told me about how someone "accused" him of doing all of this for our kids. I'm assuming the emphasis was on OUR kids. What a funny thing to be accused of. I'm not really sure what to say to that except, "Yes." We do give almost all of our free time to our children's activities. I don't mean just driving them to the activities (which is a part time job in and of itself) but also coaching, reffing games, being on boards, getting fields ready, cleaning up afterwards, dealing with all of the negativity, complaining and snide remarks that go with it from the very few albeit very vocal people who seem to thrive on their own anger.<br />
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We have 5 children and let me tell you it is not easy. I will also tell you that it is so wonderful. I truly wouldn't trade it for anything in the world. That's not just some phoney baloney, Rob and I are truly dedicated to our our children. We are always trying to do better by them and we struggle to know what exactly that is. When we got married we "planned" on having 2 children. I have photos of us on vacation with just our two oldest kids when they were so little and the only two. I was so happy and truly felt our family was complete. The happy fool that I was, I didn't see God's plan at work. We were so happy that we truly felt we had to share that love with another child. Before we even went to China to bring home our daughter, we already had our "third" child. So our "third" child became our fourth. (our adopted daughter came to our family AFTER our son was born but she is actually OLDER than he is by 3 months). We again, thought we were a complete family of 6 until less than a year later we found out we were pregnant with #5. We had added 3 more children to our family within two years. We had no choice but to hit the ground running. We never changed what kind of parents we were going to be just because we now had 5 kids. Rob was already coaching Justin in soccer. I spent that same summer with the double stroller coming across the soccer fields to watch all of Justin's games and his little brother and 2 sisters were there to cheer him on. Fast forward to 9 years later and Justin is now helping out at the score board, Megan is helping rake the fields and work the concession stand, while Helen, Nate and I are cheering for Logan's All Stars games. Nate also helped out as batboy for the travel baseball team Logan is on. And that is just this past weekend. THAT is our family time. We wear the team's colors to the big games as a family and sometimes even wear shirts with our last name on it with our son's number on them. YES, we're that family. LOL We support each other and cheer each other on. We don't just drop our kids off at practices and use the time to get errands done. (not that that doesn't sound like a very practical idea sometimes) We coach. We volunteer for boards. (granted Rob does more than I do but I'm right there supporting in any way I can even if it's just to listen) Yes, we do it for our kids but we are there for all of the kids. We want the best for all of the kids. Why else would anyone do this? Kids should have Little Leagues, Soccer Leagues, Basketball Leagues to play in. These organizations take an incredible amount of work and time commitments. <br />
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I don't remember the last time Rob and I went out and had a nice dinner together. Many nights are spent grabbing a hot dog at the concession stand or stopping at the local pizza place in town for a late dinner. Don't worry, this is so not a pity party. This is our family. A family of 5 kids & 2 parents that spend as much time as possible together, supporting each other, cheering each other on and spending a lot of time making sure everyone has their equipement, uniform clean (yes boys, you need to wear CLEAN socks LOL), and having bizarre conversations that go very similar to:<br />
<em><span style="color: #3d85c6;"> "I don't know where your jock is, believe me I didn't take it and hide it on you... oh wait you made it into a boat for your lego guys... .NICE... we'll be cleaning the Lego guys now too."</span></em><br />
<em><span style="color: #3d85c6;">" Do you have your water bottle? Yes, I know they sell water at the concession stand. Do YOU know how much I've spent at the concession stand this year? No, actually I do not want you to try and figure out how much I've spent at the concessions stand this year. Forget it we have to go, we'll get water from the concession stand when we get there. Get in the car. Did anyone feed the dogs?"</span></em><br />
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This is a snapshot of our crazy life and I wouldn't trade it for the world. I will treasure these moments when one day we find ourselves sitting across from each other alone, just the 2 of us. I know that one by one they will grow up and move onto the next stage of their lives. There will be no more soccer games, baseball games or basketball games to go to.There may even be days, very few I hope, that we don't get a call or email or text. I can only hope that we have grandchildren who have activities that we get go to and sit proudly in the stands or auditorium. Then hopefully we'll be watching our children coaching and cheering on their children. That's what life is all about. Supporting, cheering, offering a shoulder for disappointed tears that come from time to time, talking about the great plays or how to do better next time, reminding them that we win as a team and lose as a team, and to always respect the umps, coaches and each other and don't forget to hustle and keep your chins up. <br />
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<i>23) <strong>Parents appear hostile and angry.</strong> This is very sad, and people that don’t have RAD kids don’t understand this. The more the parent loves the child, the more pain the child dishes out to get them to stop. The child had his heart broken as an infant, and he believes that love hurts. They do whatever they can not to be loved – they don’t use the parents love to grow emotionally strong. Parents are basically abused in their own home.</i><br />
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As a mom to a child who has RAD, my love is received as pain. I really struggle with how to counter that. How do you show someone love when it causes that person pain based on their own brokenness? Her goal is to keep distance between us to protect herself. <i><b>Believe me she is very good at it.</b></i> I try to parent her in the ways suggested by RAD therapists and experts. At the same time it is very difficult to muster up the energy to even want to be with someone who you already know is going to do everything in their power to make sure you don't get close to them. I am not a Robot. I have feelings too. I went into adoption with the idea that there was a child out there somewhere in the world that needed someone to love them. That hungered for a mother's hug and love. Someone who would now know that there was someone, actually an entire family, in the world that wanted THEM and LOVED THEM. I admit that it was rooted in my own childhood desire to have someone in the world who loved me just as I was. That desire grew into wanting to give that love that I longed for to another child who felt that same emptiness and loss.<br />
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I still know that I am a warrior and that God is using all of this for our good. My question is simply, how do I show love to her without causing her pain... without her needing to do everything in her power to keep distance between us. How many times can I say "I love you no matter what." before she believes me. I do get frustrated but I keep going back to her to show her that I still love her. Yes, being pushed away hurts but even though it hurts I will always keep coming back to love her more. The roots of my love for her come from a place of<i> my</i> childhood pain and now <i>her</i> childhood pain is hurting both of us, but as the mother I have to love her through both of our pain.<br />
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There are no guarantees that this will have a happy ending for us. I just want her to see me as her mom or at least I want her to feel love, period. Then there are days when I just want to get through that day without reacting to her pushing me away.<br />
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If I was a Robot it would be easier.<br />
Robots do not have feelings to get hurt, but then again Robots also don't feel LOVE either.<br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: red; font-size: large;">"Three things will last forever--faith, hope, and love--</span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: red; font-size: large;">and the greatest of these is love</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: red; font-size: large;">."</span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">It is my faith in and my greatest hope that LOVE will indeed last forever between she and I. </span><br />
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<span style="color: #38761d;">We still have ties to our old community since our family lives there and our kids still are involved in sports there. It is difficult realizing that some people take it personally when you move. It's very difficult to try and understand the mentallity of "you moved... so you must think you are better than us" or the idea that "you moved so you have no right to be involved here anymore". We sacrificed a lot to move in order to be closer to our church. Our life is pretty much all about church, the kids' school and the kids' sports. </span><br />
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<span style="color: #38761d;">For me, I get to continue in a great bible study group. Currently we are studying with the book, "Fashioned for Intimacy". God wants restoration of the first relationship between man and woman as image bearers of God. We need our eyes and hearts opened to how the enemy (satan) has worked to break that union with distrust, fear and suspision between man and woman. Through man and woman together, God is fully revealed. In order for this to come to pass, we need to begin to see how God created us as women and men and stop believing the lies that satan has been whispering to us about ourselves and about each other. When we, women, have the "eyes of our understanding" opened we are able to move in a realm of spiritual authority that is powerful. We are then able to see the enemy's tactics against our family members and we are then able to use the power we have in God against him. We become the virtuous warrior that God intended us to be in our families. (Chapter 10 is called the Warrior Woman) When God declared satan our enemy in the Garden of Eden, He was declaring the WE are Satan's enemy as well. As believers, we are the ones called into battle against our enemy and we need to fight off Satan's attempts at breaking apart our families and leading our children astray with his lies. </span><br />
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<span style="color: #38761d;">In our family, Satan has been able to use our daughter's attachment disorder to whisper many lies to us. I had questioned God's hand in this, why He would do this not only to her but to our family. The outlook for attachment disorder generally does not look good. Our daughter believes MANY lies about herself and of those who love her. It has been a constant attack from satan and a battle in our home, both spiritually and literally. This bible study has opened my eyes to these lies and have shown me who I am in Christ and what my true role is in our family. I know longer see myself in battle with my daughter or against attachment disorder. I now see that what man intended for bad, God intended for good. (I know there is a bible verse to insert here but I want to continue this thought) By seeing myself as the enemy of satan, I can see God's truths. The truth is that God did intend for our daughter to be adopted by us, she is part of God's plan, God does love me and her and He desires me to allow Him to work in her life. I need to see my enemy for who and what he is, the father of all lies. If you are familiar at all with attachment disorder then you know how invasive lying is with these children. I need to stand on God's truths and fight off the arrows of lies that are being directed at me and the members of my family. God can use attachment disorder for our good. (WOW now that is a new thought and could only be from God) I have been fighting the wrong enemy. I have been seeing the enemy's disguise. I'm not sure people who do not experience attachment disorder within their homes can truly understand how easily satan can use it. Being "rejected" as a mother by a child that you love and loved long before they were even born is devastating. It attacked every weakness and insecurity I have. I did realize that I wasn't truly the person that I was being treated like, but it didn't change the fact that one person in my life, my child, was acting as if I was. She rejected all the love I offered her because that very love was what she feared the most. For her love meant being hurt. It was and is easier for her not to receive love because that way she can not be abandoned or hurt again. It is a horrible disorder. It is a disorder that satan used to try and take me down with. I was becoming the person the LIES were telling me I was. "God must not love you." "You aren't a good mother." "Maybe all the pain you suffered as a child that lead to your desire to adopt was all a big joke on you and no good was ever to come out of it." </span><br />
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<span style="color: #38761d;">Now my eyes and heart have been opened to God's truths. I now see that I am a warrior fighting for my family. I need to put on the whole armour of God and protect myself and them. </span><br />
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<span style="color: #38761d;">I am a warrior and you can be one too.</span><br />
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<span style="color: #cc0000; font-size: large;">Behind the need to communicate is the need to share. </span><br />
<span style="color: #cc0000; font-size: large;">Behind the need to share is the need to be understood. </span><br />
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<span style="color: #cc0000; font-size: large;">~Leo Rosten </span><br />
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<span style="color: #cc0000; font-size: large;">I have been wondering why I blog. Does anyone else besides me even care or read it? This weekend someone actually came up to me and talked to me about one of my posts. I was so surprised. Then today I came across this quote. I do have this need to communicate, to share and to be understood. I also have a strong need to let other people know that they are not alone. I want others to know that even in this technology age where we can email, video conference, facebook, chat, text and twitter, that life can still get lonely at times. Sometimes we all feel alone and wonder if anyone else really does care about what we are going through and even with all of these ways of communicating, do we REALLY communicate with each other. Our communications are still so shallow. We still work so hard to protect ourselves and to keep others from really knowing us. This blog allows me to share with others about what is really going on in my life. It also allows others to lurk... (that's what I've seen it called) to peek into another's life and see that truly we are all much more similar than different. </span><br />
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<span style="color: #cc0000; font-size: large;">Recently our family has been making some big changes. We have moved closer to our church. That move has meant leaving much behind. A home, friends, family, spending time with my nieces, being involved with my children's sports and lots of stuff. (It's not possible to cram a 3600 square feet of stuff into about 2200 square feet) We are only 30 minutes away so I will still see my family and friends and I will always be involved with my children's sports but it IS still different. I want to be clear that Rob and I know that God has called us to these changes. Following God is an amazing journey but not always easy, even when you know you are doing the right thing. Oddly, I keep thinking I'd be more upset about these changes. I am at peace. I'm sharing this because I know how overwhelming God's plan can seem. How impossible, impracticle. Even more difficult when other people are involved like spouses, children and extended family and good friends. Following God is not just a choice that I make in a bubble. There is a trickle down effect. I believe that when one of us chooses to follow God, it opens the opportunity for God to be able to work in the lives of others as well. Not that God can't work without us, but when others see us doing what He wants, it can become less scarey for those who watch us. </span><br />
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<span style="color: #cc0000; font-size: large;">God loves us and wants us to draw closer to Him. Sometimes it means walking away from what we know and what feels comfortable. This move is a work in process and has not been without it's bumps and tears. Just because it is the right thing to do, doesn't mean it will be easy. I can only say that God is pleased when we follow Him. I have not finished this journey yet so I don't know all that is to come. I do know that as long as I am taking this journey following God that I am in the right place. </span><br />
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<span style="color: #cc0000; font-size: large;">Happy Valentine's Day everyone. </span><br />
<span style="color: #cc0000; font-size: large;">May Jesus be your special Valentine today and always. </span><br />
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<div style="text-align: center;"><span style="color: #cc0000;">I am sitting <em>here</em> in our living room watching the Super Bowl. </span></div><div style="text-align: center;"><span style="color: #cc0000;">We spent our first overnight in our new place on Sunday, January 30th. Rob and I had gone away for our joint birthday celebration to see the Million Dollar Quartet in NYC on Saturday the 29th. We both turned 40 within 6 days of each other. Spending the night in NYC was incredible. We had such a fantastic time. We came <em><strong>home</strong></em> and suddenly we were packing up the beds and heading to the new<em><strong> house</strong></em>. </span></div><br />
<div style="text-align: center;"><span style="color: #cc0000; font-size: large;"><em>Does sleeping in a house make it home?</em></span></div><div style="text-align: center;"><br />
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</div><div style="text-align: center;"><em><span style="color: #cc0000;">Friday we celebrated Rob's birthday here.</span></em></div><div style="text-align: center;"><br />
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</div><div style="text-align: center;"><em><span style="color: #cc0000;">Today we bought curtains for the new place.</span></em></div><div style="text-align: center;"><br />
</div><div style="text-align: center;"><em><span style="color: #cc0000; font-size: large;">Does hanging new curtains make a house a home?</span></em></div><div style="text-align: center;"><br />
</div><div style="text-align: center;"><em><span style="color: #cc0000;">Tonight we are watching the Super Bowl together.</span></em></div><div style="text-align: center;"><br />
</div><div style="text-align: center;"><em><span style="color: #cc0000; font-size: large;">Does cheering and booing during the big game </span></em></div><div style="text-align: center;"><em><span style="color: #cc0000; font-size: large;">make a house a home?</span></em></div><div style="text-align: center;"><br />
</div><div style="text-align: center;"><em><span style="color: #cc0000; font-size: large;">As I've been wondering when this new place will become HOME to us... I realize that it is the family memories that we make together that will gradually make this house our home.</span></em></div><div style="text-align: center;"><br />
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</div></div>Scottfamilyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05897093225291361042noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4133843280398656380.post-32701305987177974152011-01-23T21:13:00.003-05:002011-02-06T21:54:32.700-05:00Living in the Fast Lane<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on"><span style="color: #6aa84f; font-size: large;">It's been quite an amazing few weeks. On January 9th I started my first fast. I found a 21 day fast that started on January 9th and ends on January 29th which just happens to be my 40th birthday. I went into this with the desire to ask God for direction for our family and for blessings upon my children. Fasting for me is a time to take my focus off of food and putting it on God. Everyday that I make the choice to sacrifice certain foods and focus more time on praying and reading the Word is a day of fasting for me. My prayer has been to ask God for His direction for my life to show me what He wanted for our family. I did not know how pleased God would be by this sacrifice. Since I have started this fast, God has shown us where He wants us to live, has directed us to a house that will bring us 5 minutes from our church (rather than the 35 minutes we've been traveling for the past year) and has made our family really evaluate what is most important to us material wise. We currently live in a home that has 4 bedrooms and 4.5 bathrooms. We built it and picked out each detail from the trims to the tiles. It was so much fun. My husband and I generally had the same visions throughout the building process and it brought us closer. (I was warned that times like building a house can put a strain on a marriage when couples don't see eye to eye.) When we moved in, I had a 7 year old, a five year old and two one year old babies, one on either hip as I directed our friends where boxes had to go. Two months after we moved in, I discovered that I was pregnant with our 5th child. Life has been very busy and the last 8 years have made this house our home. Life has a way of changing though. We now have two children attending a school that is a half hour drive away and attend a church that is 30 -35 minutes away. I have been an on the go mom for quite a long time. I'm not complaining. I love that my children are in such a great school and they are loving their new church as are Rob and I. The thing is we are living out of two (actually 3) different towns. What was making the decision even more difficult is that my husband's family lives here in town and that Rob and I are very involved with our community's sports programs.</span><br />
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<span style="color: #6aa84f; font-size: large;">So what's a girl to do but start a fast and ask God for some direction as she approaches her 40th birthday. Isn't that what everyone does? Well, I certainly hadn't before. As I approached this fast, I explained to God that I am weak but I would give this a good try. I told Him that I had my doubts and didn't want to make this some superstitious thing where if I do this God will do that but if I "mess up" (superstitionsly walk under the proverbial ladder) then He wouldn't grant my prayer. So here I am 2 weeks later and all I can say is WOW. God lead Rob and I to a house very close to church and closer to the older kids' school. It is a rental house that has room for 5 kids and allowed us to have our 2 dogs and cat. It "fits" us. It even has a fire pit outside for those summer nights of roasting marshmallows and making s'mores, which is what we have at our current house. God has opened a door for us and we weren't even sure if we should go knocking. He has shown us that He wants us to move on beyond the material and prepare for what comes next. I'm not sure what that will be but I am happy to know that we are in His will. This sacrifice of food and material items (funny how willing my children are to give up the toys, clothes and books that they have outgrown given the opportunity) has lead us to clearly and quickly see what God's will is for us. What makes it even better is that my family knew I was fasting for God's direction and so they are all very aware that this is answered prayer. What an amazing testimony for them and us. </span><br />
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<span style="color: #6aa84f; font-size: large;">So I'm heading into week 3 of this fast. (A fast that I have failed at miserably by my own standards but God knows my heart is in the right place and that seems to matter to Him quite a bit.)</span><br />
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<span style="color: #6aa84f; font-size: large;">This has been an incredible way to start the new year. I'm looking forward to what comes along in the year to come. </span><br />
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<span style="color: #6aa84f; font-size: large;">Blessings to you,</span><br />
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<span style="color: #6aa84f;"><em>Every New Year we hope this will finally be the year that things will change. We make promises about the new person we're going to become, pledging to get a grip on our finances, get in shape, become a better parent, spouse, even a nicer human being! But there’s one problem: our resolutions seldom work. The busy pace of life gets the better of us, and suddenly, the year is over with little to no personal growth having occurred in our lives.</em></span><span style="color: #6aa84f;"><br />
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<span style="color: #6aa84f;"><em>“My One Word” is an experiment designed to move you beyond the past and look ahead. The challenge is simple: lose the long list of changes you want to make this year and instead pick ONE WORD. This process provides clarity by taking all of your big plans for life change and narrowing them down into a single thing. One word focuses on your character and creates a vision for your future. So, we invite you to join us and pick one word in 2011!</em></span><br />
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<em><span style="color: #6aa84f; font-size: large;">So this year I've been giving this one word a lot of thought and prayer. I had it narrowed down to Time, Give and Present. The common thread for me is to focus on living in the moment. To live in the moment. To EXPERIENCE THE MOMENT. That is what I've been lacking in my life, truly experiencing it. I've realized that I allow so many things to distract me from my life. I love reading other blogs, looking at the beautiful photos of the homes, decor ideas, fun crafts to try and the fun snacks to make. I read about their trials and triumphs, their sad seasons and their seasons of overcoming and joy. I can spend way too much of my time spent observing other people's lives vicariously through their blogs. Don't get me wrong, I've brought some fun ideas into our family. We've tried fun snacks like the bunny buttons, I've made fun wreaths, decorated a Jesus tree, had the courage to re do my daughter's desk with chalk paint and mod podged pretty papers on it and have refreshed my thoughts on what making a house into a home can be. This last one is, making our house into a home is the one that has giving me much to think about. What do I want OUR home to look like, feel like and smell like? Just because I'm a stay at home mom am I really using my time to make our home ~ homey and a comfortable safe loving place for my family? I had to face the answer was truthfully, "no". I was spending my time vouyering into the lives of people who WERE doing that or at least were good at making it look like they were on their blogs. I need to begin being PRESENT in my own life. To focus on each moment as it presents itself, not as I wish it was or hoped it was but as it is. </span></em><br />
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<span style="color: #6aa84f; font-size: large;"><em>For example, I spend so much time thinking about where we live, wouldn't it be easier to move closer to church, the older kids' school and into a smaller ~ home. (read lower mortgage) I can spend so much time packing, searching for homes, day dreaming and we don't even have a "for sale" sign in front of our house. How silly is that. Today we live HERE. Today we live at 52 and I need to make 52 our home. I need to make 52 the place where we have comfort and peace from the outside world. So my one word this year is PRESENT. To be present in the present. To focus on today and what I can do today, right now, for my family. How can I serve my children and husband today? I'm not talking about 1950's motherhood here. I'm talking about being here in my present life with the people I love and care about. Not living an escapism life. That's how I see it. Spending my time focusing on my children and husband to make my family a true family not just 7 people who happen to be live under the same roof. Here is the selfish part. In order to make my life calmer I've found that by making those around me, my family, feel loved and taken care of, then my home is becomes a place where we all feel cared for. I've started taking better care of my family. They are coming home to fresh baked snacks, from a box but they don't seem to care how it's made just that mom made it for them. They have clean laundry that I am putting away for them (sometimes ~ they still need to put away SOME of their clothes). My 14 year old son was surprised when he came home and his bed was made. (I'm not a "make your bed" mom ~ so when it is made they notice it right away and really like it.) These are all simple things. I know these aren't new ideas but as a stay at home mom it is so easy to get into a slump. After so many dishes, loads of laundry and meals, there comes a point when I started wondering what's the point? Dishes are never done. Laundry is never caught up. Meals are a hassle with picky eaters who would just prefer frozen pizzas. (maybe that doesn't sound so bad but I cant' tell you how many times I've been to the grocery store and thought I'd have a conniption if I had to buy one more box of pop tarts or pizza bites. I wanted REAL food.) Sometimes it all seems so futile. What is the real purpose of it all? </em></span><br />
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<em><span style="color: #6aa84f; font-size: large;">I knew this is not a way to raise a family. For 2011 I am focusing on My One Word ~ Present. By being truly PRESENT in my life, in my family, in my marriage, in my friendships, in my own projects in the PRESENT moment my life actually becomes a LIFE that I am living not a life that I am avoiding or being distracted from. </span></em><br />
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<em><span style="color: #6aa84f; font-size: large;">So I'm going to spend less time thinking of "bloggable" moments and just be present in my life. Don't get me wrong I am still going to blog. I think accountability, even if no one is reading this and it is only to myself, will be important throughout the year and blogging about my progress will be one way I can be accountable. </span></em><br />
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<span style="color: #6aa84f; font-size: large;">Presently yours at 5&2,</span><br />
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<span style="color: #cc0000; font-size: large;">In past years, during the season of advent, I have tried different ways to keep our family's focus on the true meaning of Christmas. There have been various attempts at advent calendars, participations in the Nativity reenactments at church and even singing "Happy Birthday to Jesus" with a birthday cake on Christmas. This year I came across the idea of having a "Jesus Tree" over at the <a href="http://greshambarnsale.blogspot.com/2010/11/jesus-tree.html">Gresham Barn Sale</a>. </span><br />
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<span style="color: #cc0000; font-size: large;">Since I LOVE decorating several Christmas trees each year and as of today (this can always change as I find my way up in the attic and decide to bring down "just one more") we have two full sized trees and several smaller trees set up. </span><br />
<span style="color: #cc0000; font-size: large;">The one we keep in our family room is dedicated to the ornaments that have special memories tied to them for each one of us. The children help decorate it. There are decorations from when Rob and I were children, our wedding and for our children's first Christmases. I especially love the ones made in preschool and elementary school that are decorated photos of the children with the year on them. Those hold such sweet memories and always evoke the funniest of comments. </span><br />
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<span style="color: #cc0000; font-size: large;">This year I've dedicated the tree in the foyer to be our Jesus Tree. </span><br />
<span style="color: #cc0000; font-size: large;">For each name that represents Jesus, a decoration is placed on the tree with a tag attached that has the name written on it and the bible verse relating to the name. </span><br />
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<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiBYXNikhoNgABjZTCUjJyttOogI4RzOsTzxymfUvwSPQZdeFWb37BmRVwQqRJAZfX3r6_-4_EmnKW8MT2MA927-ac9rdj1NasWHYqKA00UJT10uMz79761kYjVvZVThfajw0sUlt2lupaz/s1600/Jesus+Tree+JESUS.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="239" n4="true" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiBYXNikhoNgABjZTCUjJyttOogI4RzOsTzxymfUvwSPQZdeFWb37BmRVwQqRJAZfX3r6_-4_EmnKW8MT2MA927-ac9rdj1NasWHYqKA00UJT10uMz79761kYjVvZVThfajw0sUlt2lupaz/s320/Jesus+Tree+JESUS.jpg" width="320" /></a></div><span style="color: #cc0000;">I am still working on coming up with new symbols for the names of Jesus. Right now I am enjoying it as each one is added. </span><br />
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<span style="color: #cc0000;">From our 5 & 2 to you,</span><br />
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<span style="color: #6aa84f; font-size: large;">Today I followed up on another craft. It all started at the Little League field about a month ago. I was trying to keep the kids busy so I asked them to gather some acorns for me to make a wreath with. I make one each year for the public library's silent wreath auction fundraiser. Well, a neighbor boy heard me and said, "I have a whole bunch of acorns at my house. My dad had me pick them up. Do you want me to go get them?" He seemed so eager so I said, "Sure." and off he went. My jaw dropped and the other parents giggled when Dakota came back with a <span style="color: #b45f06;">wheel barrel </span><span style="color: #6aa84f;">FILLED with acorns from his yard. "Well that certainly will make plenty of wreaths." I didn't want to turn down his generosity so I took them home with me. Fortunately, I didn't have the problems that <a href="http://scribbit.blogspot.com/2008/11/what-can-you-do-with-acorns.html">Michelle at Scribbits</a> had. </span></span><br />
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<span style="color: #6aa84f; font-size: large;">Today I took a small grapevine wreath I had and started glue gunning them on. (yes, glue gunning is a word.... and if it isn't it should be.)</span><br />
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<span style="color: #6aa84f; font-size: large;">Here is the final result. </span><br />
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<span style="color: #6aa84f; font-size: large;">I want to make a large one for the library's auction. Oh and the fabulous part is that this project cost me $0. I had all of the needed items around my house and Dakota donated the acorns. Maybe I'll make another one for him front door as a thank you. </span><br />
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<span style="color: #6aa84f; font-size: large;">From my home at 5 and 2 Scotts to yours,</span><br />
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<a href="http://www.mylivesignature.com/" target="_blank"><img border="0" src="http://signatures.mylivesignature.com/85790/debbie52/08d44b3b337af4a430bf1e19be349a74.png" style="background: none transparent scroll repeat 0% 0%; border-bottom: 0px; border-left: 0px; border-right: 0px; border-top: 0px;" /></a>Scottfamilyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05897093225291361042noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4133843280398656380.post-20238704133320145122010-11-02T11:03:00.000-04:002010-11-02T11:03:05.786-04:00Baking Up Some Autumn Yummies!<div style="text-align: center;"><span style="color: #b45f06; font-size: large;">Today I decided to bake up some special treats with Sarah.</span></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEged3J9P9cy3BLY-rhndq4ESGx6xS519D9635_HxDFQQn39JffLGZhn4_cplNj_g9lIN4S2SBFfwFmS7Q3AM6WkS0Y_w6ESb1YyEOmIOybrvu0VV-H5svUD5TnrMk3bkd814fjyWitIcC2p/s1600/baking+leaves+brownies.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="239" nx="true" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEged3J9P9cy3BLY-rhndq4ESGx6xS519D9635_HxDFQQn39JffLGZhn4_cplNj_g9lIN4S2SBFfwFmS7Q3AM6WkS0Y_w6ESb1YyEOmIOybrvu0VV-H5svUD5TnrMk3bkd814fjyWitIcC2p/s320/baking+leaves+brownies.jpg" width="320" /></a></div><br />
<div style="text-align: center;"><span style="color: #b45f06; font-size: large;"> My inspiration was <a href="http://sweetup-northmornings.blogspot.com/2010/10/feeding-help.html">sweetup-northmornings</a>. </span></div><div style="text-align: center;"><span style="color: #b45f06; font-size: large;">I just happened to have the same Wilton muffin mold.</span></div><br />
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<div style="text-align: center;"><span style="color: #b45f06; font-size: large;">Here's Sarah helping me to make the brownies. </span></div><br />
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;"><span style="color: #b45f06; font-size: large;">Sarah did a great job pouring in ingredients and stirring</span><br />
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;"><span style="color: #b45f06; font-size: large;">Loving Sarah's little fingers in this picture.</span></td></tr>
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;"><span style="color: #b45f06; font-size: large;">Sitting pretty on Grandma's plate </span><br />
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<span style="color: #b45f06; font-size: large;">I love baking and making the house smell so yummy </span><br />
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<span style="color: #b45f06; font-size: large;">Halloween is one of my mother in law's favorite holidays. She dons her favorite, sparkly witch hat and actually counts all of the little trick of treaters that come visititng. </span><br />
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<span style="color: #b45f06; font-size: large;">We (our family and my sister and law's family) always join in and end our trick or treating at her house eating the pizza and chicken tenders we order as take out. We all look forward to this special family fun night. It looks like this year is going to be different. My mom in law is going to be at a rehab facility recooperating from surgery. I've been wracking my brain trying to find a way to make this holiday special for her still. My first task is to find out about visiting her on Halloween and taking our annual photos with all 7 of her grandchildren. We will have to make sure to bring her hat along with the new witch ear rings and Halloween shirt my sister in law got her. </span><br />
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<span style="color: #b45f06; font-size: large;">This morning my littlest niece, who thankfully is feeling better, helped me make a ghost lollipop wreath for Nana.</span><br />
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<span style="color: #b45f06; font-size: large;"> It still needs more ghosts but I am sure that the other 6 grandchildren will be happy to help. </span><br />
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<span style="color: #b45f06; font-size: large;">I am hoping to bring it to her and hang on her door so she can still share treats with the nurses and staff at the rehab center. It's such an easy and fun, child friendly project (which I'm ALL about) that I thought maybe you might like to try it too.</span><br />
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<span style="color: #b45f06; font-family: Georgia, "Times New Roman", serif; font-size: large;">Debbie </span>Scottfamilyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05897093225291361042noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4133843280398656380.post-25514115930411421692010-10-05T14:47:00.000-04:002010-10-05T14:47:52.530-04:00Sheet music, brooches, and bedsprings as Autumn decorations????<div style="text-align: center;"></div><div style="text-align: center;"><span style="color: #f1c232; font-size: large;">I have been having so much fun decorating for Autumn this week. </span></div><div style="text-align: center;"><span style="color: #f1c232; font-size: large;">Come have a peek.....</span></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgUugeRmppdVNsPCz0mhcR4MxHF66z1BxzmUAAzjrZTSc-zYc42YPd8Le8W-RuqGEOQLTCIHDHDzPkzwfPMlppkTO9tJWLuswzoaaNU-9-Dr2umrG4SZh4xOhvbRvDVhzgCev1frhFQ2YSZ/s1600/5&2+pumpkin+on+small+hutch.bmp" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="239" px="true" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgUugeRmppdVNsPCz0mhcR4MxHF66z1BxzmUAAzjrZTSc-zYc42YPd8Le8W-RuqGEOQLTCIHDHDzPkzwfPMlppkTO9tJWLuswzoaaNU-9-Dr2umrG4SZh4xOhvbRvDVhzgCev1frhFQ2YSZ/s320/5&2+pumpkin+on+small+hutch.bmp" width="320" /></a></div><div style="text-align: center;">Look at this great sheet music I found online from <a href="http://library.duke.edu/digitalcollections/hasm/browse/1860-1869/">Duke University</a></div><br />
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</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">Here's a close up picture of her all dolled up with Grandma's brooch and 2 more of the sheet music pages. </div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">I just love <span style="color: #f1c232; font-size: large;">FALL<span style="color: black;">!</span></span></div><div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none;"><br />
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Here is my library card catalog. So any thoughts? I am leaning towards painting it black and keeping the hardware silver.<br />
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What about this entertainment center? My walls are currently dark green in our family room so I'm concerned that black would not be enough of a contrast.<br />
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I really prefer plain wood for most of my pieces. Am I just afraid to commit to paint? Our downstairs rooms are what I refer to as fall colors, dark green in the family room, darker yellow in the kitchen, and a merlot in the dining room. I'm not sure if a "heritage white" or a black painted furniture would look better. Is there another choice that I'm "missing"? <br />
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</div> I am not a Fancy Dancy girl but I sure do like a Simple Dimple idea that makes me look fancy. <br />
Anna was my sweet little helper.<br />
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</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">And this was my sweet girl after we were all done. </div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><br />
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<a href="http://www.mylivesignature.com/" target="_blank"><img border="0" src="http://signatures.mylivesignature.com/85790/debbie52/08d44b3b337af4a430bf1e19be349a74.png" style="background: none transparent scroll repeat 0% 0%; border-bottom: 0px; border-left: 0px; border-right: 0px; border-top: 0px;" /></a>Scottfamilyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05897093225291361042noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4133843280398656380.post-48301962798119764672010-09-16T08:20:00.001-04:002010-09-16T09:07:12.415-04:00My New BFF<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhzckxLtFXuQ9cFtgRf2m4NbJT153jqF92WNSzbxomnyRBZPhl3mneJQE4QnuxOQWfRcjsmXw690LxCLeA5teSZa76uJqTWvSTDzg3khnCh4Y1P6H2hfOSLCyRhJRnOnCEbc4upyYbeduvO/s1600/BFF.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="185" qx="true" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhzckxLtFXuQ9cFtgRf2m4NbJT153jqF92WNSzbxomnyRBZPhl3mneJQE4QnuxOQWfRcjsmXw690LxCLeA5teSZa76uJqTWvSTDzg3khnCh4Y1P6H2hfOSLCyRhJRnOnCEbc4upyYbeduvO/s200/BFF.jpg" width="200" /></a></div>In an earlier post I wrote about finding my Peace. I admit I had a wee little doubt that <em>maybe </em>I would lose my Peace as I had in the past. What I realize now (and even thought when it was happening this summer) is that this time my Peace is not dependant on place... which would have been pretty sad since I am only at the beach with my feet up reading a great book for one week out of the year. Today is a crisp upstate NY September day, with my tan fading but my Peace is right here within me and it is so good. Peace is my new best friend. We hang out together over coffee, chat in the car about the things going on in my life and Peace offers me a reassuring hand sqeeze. She shares in my joys and offers a hug during trying times. She is truly a freind who sticks by me during the crazy whirlwindy days, encouraging me to keep going because she knows that there is always a new corner in life to turn that could exchange all this craziness for something calmer and <em>then</em> we'll talk about how lovely THAT day is. Peace is there with me to care and support me through the trials and triumphs in my life. She doesn't just show up for vacations to the beach. No she is not a "good times gal pal". She also isn't just there for me when I feel like a mess and somehow feels the need to fix me. No, she reminds me to take a deep breath during the bumpy days and to breathe in the sweetness of the the good days. She is so precious to me and I plan on keeping our friendship strong for a good long time together. We'll be little old ladies one day sitting together sipping our coffe, mine with lots of cream and sugar, discussing all of <em>these</em> days. We'll share a smile because we made it <em>there</em> to <em>that</em> moment <em>together. </em><br />
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Peace be with YOU,<br />
<a href="http://www.mylivesignature.com/" target="_blank"><img border="0" src="http://signatures.mylivesignature.com/85790/debbie52/08d44b3b337af4a430bf1e19be349a74.png" style="background: none transparent scroll repeat 0% 0%; border-bottom: 0px; border-left: 0px; border-right: 0px; border-top: 0px;" /></a>Scottfamilyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05897093225291361042noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4133843280398656380.post-67568397905487375082010-09-12T22:52:00.000-04:002010-09-12T22:52:04.355-04:00A New School Year Begins<div style="text-align: center;"><span style="color: orange; font-size: large;">September 8, 2010 marked the first day of school for Nathan, Logan and Helen. Nate starts his first year as a "grader" and Helen and Logan start 3rd grade. </span></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhucuoC058Vmg31k9Zo_CtfAPqVJsCdKMeIkO419fV43_2mlojoQYaTAuMrFk0wZYPTqJCyXCDLklEG2Cnznqof9Tt3FrThU5lkF5kvl0aJ9oUsEO9SUSEs1mPAZl6twWjH2oUt-nGQbjXF/s1600/DSC_5414.JPG" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" ox="true" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhucuoC058Vmg31k9Zo_CtfAPqVJsCdKMeIkO419fV43_2mlojoQYaTAuMrFk0wZYPTqJCyXCDLklEG2Cnznqof9Tt3FrThU5lkF5kvl0aJ9oUsEO9SUSEs1mPAZl6twWjH2oUt-nGQbjXF/s320/DSC_5414.JPG" /></a></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><span style="color: orange;">Nathan ~ the 1st day of 1st grade</span></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiVu0OMEVykC7YlqHOIvbnV5y0q7EJdFca5BGzApPTfxUvsc0W3173mzgT5pZKzYTaLh9bpaO3Yfxjn4KmYTCj0MSQMvPuKTx62-kULcmWmZWXhvVKrBsnZqeSEV7YlaT6c3oRiZXfp6pld/s1600/DSC_5427.JPG" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="320" ox="true" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiVu0OMEVykC7YlqHOIvbnV5y0q7EJdFca5BGzApPTfxUvsc0W3173mzgT5pZKzYTaLh9bpaO3Yfxjn4KmYTCj0MSQMvPuKTx62-kULcmWmZWXhvVKrBsnZqeSEV7YlaT6c3oRiZXfp6pld/s320/DSC_5427.JPG" width="212" /></a></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><span style="color: orange;">Logan starting 3rd grade ~ it's difficult getting a good picture of him because the sun really bothers his eyes. </span></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><span style="color: orange;">(Hence the shadows across his face)</span></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg9AJ72fanyMWLorezzJY_51FCrTPNdjHNRq16yaOca-7THVZ4qLBpaDrTH3NrFlNCz7JqcNzd-qRjiETNXaerDLzG3GULteivERxkONwdNfOi1QgQQySrHiLqYkbSM41-Yn0MGCU8HyNow/s1600/DSC_5434.JPG" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" ox="true" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg9AJ72fanyMWLorezzJY_51FCrTPNdjHNRq16yaOca-7THVZ4qLBpaDrTH3NrFlNCz7JqcNzd-qRjiETNXaerDLzG3GULteivERxkONwdNfOi1QgQQySrHiLqYkbSM41-Yn0MGCU8HyNow/s320/DSC_5434.JPG" /></a></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><span style="color: orange;">Helen ~ our </span><span style="color: #6aa84f;">fashionista and is totally color coordinated in </span><span style="color: #ea9999;">Pink, </span><span style="color: #6aa84f;">Green, </span><span style="color: #783f04;">& Brown </span></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj7JLs_EMDoT_99nXY8C4QlZOe8TYx0-ZYhGh5tbhUyJ7WDzP6uPoCGnsdblFfkodIoh7bndsuvqa1ri9UugpcjDYS9VtSaVHt851Eyx2NcB_6_JA4mh2NxUNsV36U0KzDGL1hFipW6Kwol/s1600/DSC_5439.JPG" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" ox="true" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj7JLs_EMDoT_99nXY8C4QlZOe8TYx0-ZYhGh5tbhUyJ7WDzP6uPoCGnsdblFfkodIoh7bndsuvqa1ri9UugpcjDYS9VtSaVHt851Eyx2NcB_6_JA4mh2NxUNsV36U0KzDGL1hFipW6Kwol/s320/DSC_5439.JPG" /></a></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><span style="color: cyan;">Megan</span><span style="color: orange;"> & </span><span style="color: blue;">Justin </span><span style="color: orange;">started school on September 10th </span></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><br />
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</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><span style="color: cyan;">Megan is SOOOO excited to be starting 7th grade</span></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><span style="color: blue;">Justin is starting high school and is keeping his excitement under control</span></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjw1MSgJb6LEqbIAv8czHqpeSBs8m02x5RiB8qVrA_QQkPZqAWylgRDtXod7c2Q6MqodNC4enZys_RyWkYNJ0ZXtgRBNuYObbrif6ved0Qv6a-0qSYGV2bocVgPRGaLZ83kao9Qd1ukv6L_/s1600/DSC_5456.JPG" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" ox="true" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjw1MSgJb6LEqbIAv8czHqpeSBs8m02x5RiB8qVrA_QQkPZqAWylgRDtXod7c2Q6MqodNC4enZys_RyWkYNJ0ZXtgRBNuYObbrif6ved0Qv6a-0qSYGV2bocVgPRGaLZ83kao9Qd1ukv6L_/s320/DSC_5456.JPG" /></a><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgWMMhTFh3An1I9COPi7L___JeFaBFR50flkqipiDbIv9BnQtmv14SZD5uDyEyq3-xG9dmRACk7BjsNdrPYsV3ydpvoxHPZOCF08pQxiCQcNSKF7cK2SBawmtNQtna-ZxIu5S3_3faJl1wd/s1600/DSC_5462.JPG" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" ox="true" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgWMMhTFh3An1I9COPi7L___JeFaBFR50flkqipiDbIv9BnQtmv14SZD5uDyEyq3-xG9dmRACk7BjsNdrPYsV3ydpvoxHPZOCF08pQxiCQcNSKF7cK2SBawmtNQtna-ZxIu5S3_3faJl1wd/s320/DSC_5462.JPG" /></a></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><br />
</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><span style="color: #783f04;">Mom with her 7th and 9th graders! How did they get so big?</span><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhPSfatZdWy-dCGp070r6grqqF_uPx7hkcT2-UETRE70rRt9dxp55mGcjW204mHS5K6aH-Nqh-fToC6QoSoLulid7y8IBrSgThLg4N7v8Ww6kaNs3_ypXd6aISf-6-9NuvKDrQtSn6gIO1c/s1600/DSC_5468.JPG" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" ox="true" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhPSfatZdWy-dCGp070r6grqqF_uPx7hkcT2-UETRE70rRt9dxp55mGcjW204mHS5K6aH-Nqh-fToC6QoSoLulid7y8IBrSgThLg4N7v8Ww6kaNs3_ypXd6aISf-6-9NuvKDrQtSn6gIO1c/s320/DSC_5468.JPG" /></a></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEghyphenhyphen4BX5TwKbWvSOg6uFVKinV4r-wCFN6iNyd_xKglw9_LATETC0PLwhLWIsiue6y-_O6hrf3_7b_i4-EBgrd6E_1YLNlnsnQgmOy66MXw6rhY_yBjXZ7zLHZxOqkh2fkhOUAdzsFXFSi92/s1600/DSC_5474.JPG" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" ox="true" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEghyphenhyphen4BX5TwKbWvSOg6uFVKinV4r-wCFN6iNyd_xKglw9_LATETC0PLwhLWIsiue6y-_O6hrf3_7b_i4-EBgrd6E_1YLNlnsnQgmOy66MXw6rhY_yBjXZ7zLHZxOqkh2fkhOUAdzsFXFSi92/s320/DSC_5474.JPG" /></a><span style="color: #6aa84f;">Dad with his big kids.</span></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><br />
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<span style="color: #6aa84f; font-size: large;">5 & 2 at 52,</span><br />
<a href="http://www.mylivesignature.com/" target="_blank"><img border="0" src="http://signatures.mylivesignature.com/85790/debbie52/08d44b3b337af4a430bf1e19be349a74.png" style="background: none transparent scroll repeat 0% 0%; border-bottom: 0px; border-left: 0px; border-right: 0px; border-top: 0px;" /></a>Scottfamilyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05897093225291361042noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4133843280398656380.post-59248015427442561012010-09-10T13:21:00.002-04:002010-09-12T22:55:34.389-04:00Sweet 16<div style="text-align: center;"><span style="color: #741b47; font-size: large;"><strong>Today Rob and I celebrate our 16th wedding anniversary. I am so glad that God brought the two of us together. </strong></span></div><span style="color: #741b47;"></span><br />
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<strong><em><span style="color: #741b47; font-size: large;">Debbie & Rob Scott</span></em></strong><br />
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<div align="left"><span style="color: #741b47; font-size: large;">Yesterday I was at flag football practice for Logan and Nathan. I was chatting with this woman and we started talking about the firefighters' parade that is <em>today </em>and how the flag football players had been invited to march in it<em>. </em>I mentioned that it was our anniversary and that Rob hadn't mentioned any plans but he had mentioned the parade for the flag football players to participate in and how our boys might want to march. I was a little grumpy about this because the parade is at the same time as I would have been liking to go out to dinner. The sweet woman then mentioned how she and her husband had been married a <em>LONG </em>time and how her husband had made a big to-do out of their dog's birthday on August 1st, even wrapping presents for the dog, but then their wedding anniversary rolled around on August 23rd and he <em>forgot.</em></span></div><div align="left"><span style="color: #741b47; font-size: large;">"Oh my. How long have you been married?" I asked. "Fifteen years."</span></div><div align="left"><br />
</div><div align="left"><span style="color: #741b47; font-size: large;">I shared this little conversation with Rob last night and we both were struck by how she thought 15 years was a long time to be married. We both agreed that 16 years is a big deal but neither one of us feels that it's been a LONG time. I guess we've been enjoying it or something like that. I will say our marriage has taken a whole lot of commitment on both of our parts. We seem to make each other better. Today Rob sent me a youtube video of Billy Joel's song, "Just the way you are". It was the song we had our first dance to at our reception. I remember thinking that when we chose this song, "Will you still feel this way about me after we've been married for a <em>long</em> <em>time</em>?" </span></div><div align="left"><span style="color: #741b47; font-size: large;">I guess we still haven't gotten to that <em>long time </em>point yet. I'm just glad we still love each other just the way we are. </span></div><div align="left"><span style="color: #741b47; font-size: large;">I think a big part of the reason for that is because we haven't really tried to change each other. (not that we haven't wanted to at times) We "get" that the reason we work so well is because we are who we are. We don't always agree, we don't always want the same goals or maybe we do have the same goals but are just seeing different ways to reach them, but in the end we see marriage as a partnership and most of all we do respect and love each other. We've done great things together that neither one of us would have done alone. We've helped each other grow. We've had plenty of good times building our life together and have committed ourselves to our children. All in all I'd say it's been a very sweet 16 years. </span></div><div align="left"><br />
</div><div align="center"> Don't go changing, to try and please me </div><div align="center"><br />
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</div><div align="center">You never let me down before </div><br />
Don't imagine you're too familiar <br />
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And I don't see you anymore <br />
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I wouldn't leave you in times of trouble <br />
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We never could have come this far <br />
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I took the good times, I'll take the bad times <br />
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I'll take you just the way you are <br />
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Don't go trying some new fashion <br />
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Don't change the color of your hair <br />
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You always have my unspoken passion <br />
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Although I might not seem to care <br />
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I don't want clever conversation <br />
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I never want to work that hard <br />
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I just want someone that I can talk to <br />
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I want you just the way you are. <br />
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I need to know that you will always be <br />
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The same old someone that I knew <br />
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What will it take till you believe in me <br />
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The way that I believe in you. <br />
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I said I love you and that's forever <br />
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And this I promise from the heart <br />
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I could not love you any better <br />
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I love you just the way you are.</td></tr>
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;"><span style="color: #6aa84f; font-size: large;">September 10, 2010</span><br />
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<span style="color: #6aa84f; font-size: large;">5 & 2 @ 52</span><br />
<a href="http://www.mylivesignature.com/" target="_blank"><img border="0" src="http://signatures.mylivesignature.com/85790/debbie52/08d44b3b337af4a430bf1e19be349a74.png" style="background: none transparent scroll repeat 0% 0%; border-bottom: 0px; border-left: 0px; border-right: 0px; border-top: 0px;" /></a>Scottfamilyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05897093225291361042noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4133843280398656380.post-69141209095059312692010-08-23T16:04:00.001-04:002010-08-23T16:09:20.735-04:00Holding my peace<span style="color: #3d85c6;">Yesteday we arrived home from vacation. A week at Carolina Beach, NC. It was our 3rd time we spent staying at the Sand Dollar beach house. We usually plan our week away around Justin's birthday. We celebrated his 14th birthday on Saturday. Justin is such a great kid. (almost young man) He is so smart, has a fabulous sense of humor, is sensitive and caring, not to mention a good looking kid. It is a pleasure being his mom. </span><br />
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<span style="color: #3d85c6;">I spent a good part of our vacation reading and trying to get some color. My new favorite book, especially for a vacation read, is EAT, PRAY, LOVE. It was the perfect compliment to my surroundings. I have enjoyed the last two trips to Carolina Beach. The house is right on the beach. We spend the week at the beach, coming inside to cool off and rest and then back outside to the beach. We eat mostly at the house. Rob is a fabulous cook. The kids spend their time playing video games and this week we watched the Little League World Series. They get along so well in like half the space of our home. It is so peaceful spending my days reading, swimming at the beach and collecting shells. This week was different. In the past I had peace while we were there but then "lost" it when we arrived home. This week I realized that it wasn't the peaceful surroundings that mattered. I could make peace within myself and then take it with me. It's not the beach and lack of routine that made it so peaceful, although it sure is pleasant. It is finding peace, real peace that isn't dependant on surroundings or circumstances. It is accepting people as they are. That is a big part of it for me. I realized that Rob's idea of relaxing and my idea of relaxing are different. I also discovered that my kids are who they are. They have their own personalities. My job as their mother is help guide them not mold them. I have spent so much time thinking that I know what is best for them, especially Helen. I have spent so much time and energy trying to help her. She has so willfully fought me. This week I realized that I can not make her want to be my daughter. I can not make her trust and love me. I need to find a peace that does not depend on her behavior. I thought that the only way to be a mother to her was to "heal" her from her attachment disorder. Now I realize that I need peace more than anything else. I need to find peace that will keep me through the storms of life. When you have peace within you the storms outside are just something happening around you not to you. </span><br />
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<span style="color: #6aa84f; font-family: Georgia, "Times New Roman", serif; font-size: large;">Blessings to you,</span><br />
<span style="color: #6aa84f; font-family: Georgia, "Times New Roman", serif; font-size: large;">Debbie</span>Scottfamilyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05897093225291361042noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4133843280398656380.post-57692411957254545012010-08-14T13:47:00.000-04:002010-08-14T13:47:34.606-04:00RAD the invisible DisorderI am feeling particularly frustrated today. I am tired of living day to day with a child who seems to go out of her way to make me upset and have no relationship with me. Her need to control everything and everyone around her continues to disrupt our daily life. I did find a website that has a FAQ about RAD. (reactive attachment disorder) I wish everyone knew more about what I see as an invisible disorder. <br />
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<a href="http://www.radkid.org/faq.html">http://www.radkid.org/faq.html</a><br />
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